Dear Thelma,

I have 2 children. One month before I deliver my 3rd child, I found out that my husband is seeing another women. He claimed that I am a good mother but not a good wife. I have dedicated all my time to the kids and doesn’t pleases him at time. Of course I was tramatised over the incident. After I finished my confinement, I went to a sliming centre in hope that I will win my husband heart again cos I still love him very much. We went for vacation and I tried to be romantic to ward him. 2 months after that, my husband left the other women and we are back as a happy couple again.

Not long after that, he have to leave for another state to work. That leave me and my 3 kids at home for several year. In 2005, he was jobless and I have to be the bread winner in the family. Thanks God I still had my career. The ugly thing is, I started seeing another man and when my husband found out about it, he spent a large sum of money to hire a investigator and finally file for a divorce.

He told me that he shall ‘revenge’ on me by fooling around with other women to hurt me. He used to come home on alternate days but nowadays, our home is like a hotel to him. He drop by once a forth night for few hours only. He claimed that since it is my fault to make him come out with large sum to hire a investigator and a lawyer, I shall bear the cost for his rendevous. Do you know how hurt am I?

Didn’t he realised many years ago when he cheated on me, I am willing to sacrificed lots of thing to win his heart back but why he have to treat me this way???!!!

Sad Wife

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If you did not read ‘Dear Thelma’ on The Star 20/August paper, this is one of the problem face by many women out there. Take note that I type all the above from my heart as to what I can remember but the original is longer with lots of other ugly acts from the husband.

That last line has been playing in my head over and over. I know man and women is not supposed to cheat on each other but why as a women, when we found out that our husband stray, we always put ourself at fault. Many times the women will ask, “What is wrong with me? Am I not attractive enough? or sexy enough?” Somehow, we will go thru all the trouble to win them back and so forth? But for the man, they will think that we are not a good wife/mother anymore. The only solution for them is file for a divorce and take over the custody of the children. All human make mistake but women never given the chance to turn over a new leaf.

Really dunno what to name this entry. All I can say is wtf!!!

Just when I felt so proud with our Flying Stripe (Jalur Gemilang) in my previous entry, these people have to spoilt my merdeka (independent) mood by altering the flags into a wedding gown and worst still, a UMBRELLA!!!

FFS, a flag was meant to fly up high in the sky and not making them into an attire. Just imagine you sitting on the flag (that is a form of irrespect) and all the cunt smell (ewwww…!) and juices dripped on the flag. Moreover, I think the couple attire is dem fugly 😡

Do you have to show your patriotism this way ❗ I hope the couples who just won ‘Wedding of the Year” award doesn’t come out with this silly plan too. But who knows? Anyway, ever wonder why she choose August 21st?

Usual morning grudge. Walking like a drunkie and sat on the urinal with my eyes closed. Hubby came and gave me a few seducive strokes at my hair. Love the way he spoilt me sometimes, the way he stroke my silly silky hair makes me feel like a 12y/o spoilt brat. Then he ask,
“What are you doing?”

“Sleeping… zzzZZZzzz…”

Haha… I does that all the time. Stealing few minutes sitting on the urinal falling half asleep.

And you may think why I have to blog about it. Cause I’m feeling SLEEPYyyyyyy now after a quick lunch with Snark. Nothing to thanks God for but a friday. Looking forward to tomorrow.

High point – can sleep in.

Low point – HOUSECHORE, HOUSECHORES and more housechores!

Most important, it is carnival sales now. So I’m gonna shop till I dropped!

*chanting * sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales, sales….

This month is my poorest month in my life *sob sob*. I have never live my life with only less than RM200 in my bank account. And worst, I forgot to balance my check book.

There are 3 incident that makes me poorer:

1. You see, I’ve actually book a tickets for my parents to Langkawi too and their ticket is not cheap. 3x more expensive than my tickets. 3 days later, my mom said they can’t go cos she was posted to teach in Ipoh. We have no choice but to forfeit the money. It was RM300!!! So sim tia (heartache). I thought nevermind lo. Only 300 bucks.
2. On the way back from LCCTerminal, there is this idoit that didn’t know how to avoid a metal plate on the road. He drove over the metal plate and the plate flew to our direction and hit our car tyre. The whole tyre gone! It suffered a deep horizontal cut. We have to come out RM198 for a new tyre to replaced our 6 months old tyre. So sim tia (heartache)!!! I thought nevermind again lo. As long everyone is safe. Luckly didn’t hit our windscreen.
3. I’m sure you guys have heard how famous is our Proton Waja. Their power window is always faulty. Then sui-sui yesterday night, the window couldn’t wind up. Die la! I know another few hundred dollar. Got the bracket change for RM220. I ask the workshop,
   “can charge to credit card ah?”
   “Can!!! But must charge 3%”
   “Knn, ok la. What to do. I got no cash liao.”So, another RM226.60 gone! So sim tia (heartache)!!!

This morning when I checked my purse,

die la…. left 10 bucks only. 钱 不 够用 Money not enough. How am I going to survive till month end??!!! *snif, snif*

Any kind soul out there can lend me 50 bucks or not?

The above ticker bar tells all. Yay! I’ll be in Langkawi in less than 2 weeks. I so needed to get away from the City and let my mind loose for a while. With 3 little devils in tow, it’s hard to plan for a holiday. We can’t go anywhere adventurous. The princess and prince who is 6 and 4 y/o prefer places where they can run loose. We have been to Genting Highland numerous times. Having to see them on the spinning saucer cup or jumbo ride over and over again really gonna make me puke. Wherelse the Baby Princess need to get a nap in between and her calls for milk!

Why do i choose Langkawi?

Firstly…

I managed to get a fair price on our budget carrier i.e. Air Asia for RM9.95 only (excluding taxes which cost more than the seat!!!). And since the kids have not gone on the plane before, I think it’s a good start for them especially my prince who is a automobile geek. I haven’t mentioned a word to him about the trip for I am very sure he will bug me every single day tho I’ve mentioned it to my princess and yesterday we had a little conversation about the flight.

Princess: Do they serve food in the cabin?
Queen : No!
Princess: But I saw Mr Beans’ and they served food.
Queen: Our flight cost us only Rm100, whereby Mr Bean’s cost him RM1000!!!

So my princess is a bit dissapointed about the real luxuries you can enjoy in a plane and I’ve found out she is a very good observant too (die la lidat!). I turned to the King and told him I am prepared to forked out RM5 for a small tube of Chips just to see the kids happy.

Secondly…

if not of the existance of Langkawi Underwater World, I would not have step into that island and I’ve read a lot of good review on their aquarium compared to KLCC Aquaria. I just have to go and witness myself on all the good things that I’ve heard. Plus, Langkawi Underwater has penguins!!! Aquaria don’t have. That win hands up for Langkawi, definitely!

Thirdly…

unlimited invitation from my friend (Raymond) who is a chef (to be precise ‘Executive Chef’!) in The Datai. Holy cow! I’ve just done a google search on their Hotel and the room rates for a nite in the deluxe room cost RM1,135.00!!! … and no, I’m not putting a nite there nor get a sponsorship from Raymond. Basically, I get to dine in their 5 star lounge and probably savour one or two dishes cook by the Chef (hmmm… dream on. lol) for free. Unfortunately, he have to leave the island on my 2nd day there which means I have to explore the island by myself. *ggrrrrr….

So much for such an important event my digi cam decided to give me a little hick-up last week. But, ah well, at least I have time to get it repair. Was thinking of getting a new cam but if I do that, I’ll have to cough out another RM1K. Talking about cam, I’ve sold my Sony DSC T7. Longggggggggg story. (actually I don’t like that cam at all). Mean while, I’m trying to brush up my photography skill here and hopefully will have a few nice shots (at least) to put up in the blog when I return. *keeping my finger cross*

Have been doing this many many times ever since I sent my maid away.

Came out squeeky clean and dry under the sun even faster. I’m not sure about you, basically i dump any washable item into the machine.

It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter-in-law arrives in the family, everything changes. Some daughters-in-law are well trained and well mannered. They don’t come to change the family routine. Read the following:

The new wife (progressive Indian woman of today) was being welcomed at the husband’s home in a traditional manner.As expected she gave a speech:

” My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family”, she said.”Firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine.”

“No, I will never do that, never in a million years”.

“What do you mean my child?” Asked the father-in-law.”What I mean, dad, is (looking at her father in law):

Those who used to wash dishes must carry on washing them.

Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it.

Those who cooked shouldn’t stop at my account, and those who used to clean should continue cleaning”.”Then what are you here for?” asked the mother in law.

“As for me, I’m here just to entertain your son!”
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I knew what is the conclusion half way reading Kenny Sia’s blog this morning but can’t remember who’s blog that had that almost similar entry. So I have to check all 50 bookmarked website and their archieve but luckly Rojak was the 10th in my list.

Woot!!!… check out both the blogs. Rojak entry was posted on the 8th June and Kennysia’s first bola entry after all those pressure from his loyal readers (that is including me, ahem) was caught copying someone’s work (If no then I apologize lo).

Enough channeling traffic said. You go and read yourself and laugh your head out. Kenny, no worries. I still love you.

For all those lazy clickers, www.jessieling.com proudly presents the highlight for today World Cup news is ….

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The Official football design for FIFA 2006 imitate the design of a panty liner for WOMEN!!! No doubt. The German has been symbolised as the sex symbol and is trying to make the World Cup 2006 as sexy as possible. Now…. that panty liner is sexy? No!!!!

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Oh ya, for added information directed to the guys, panty liner is not for our monthly ahem. It’s for other purposes la. Go ask your mather, sister, girlflend or any char boh what is it for.

Why is the name wisdom yet it gave us lots of trouble? I’ve been having slight toothaches since 3 years ago. Of course the pain act up and subside in few days time. The four of them take turn. Up, down, left, right. Lately it was down right.

And my tongue is telling me both the upper wisdom teeth is decaying. I can’t go with an extraction which looks like a pretty easy (presume!) task and less pain. Mine is impacted and needed some surgery. I was told that what is a realtively minor operation at 20s can become quite difficult in patients who is 40s and the younger patients recover much quickly too. Gosh! I am already pass 30s!!! It freak me more when I hear that.

This is Kennysia when he got all four wisdom tooth extract at the same time. I know for sure I’m going to look like that. Like a big buffalo!!! *noooooooooooo…

Anyway, I’ve make an appointment to see my dentist in 2 weeks time. I have to. I have no choice cos this conversation with my mom keep on reflecting in my head, “I was like you at the beginning. Scare! Then my friends told me if I don’t get my teeth done now, don’t blame the kids if they can’t serve you crabs in future.”

And also all those horror stories about the extraction/surgery associates with PAIN! No one blady hell say not PAIN! When the needle poke you during anaesthetics, it was fine but when the dentist cut the gum, she can feel something… something. I presume it’s a undescribeable feeling.

Sometimes I just wish that the dentist will let me sleep throughout the surgery so that I won’t be able to hear all those surgery instruments hitting each other on the nicely sterilized tray. You know the sound, that goes clink, clong, clank… But then, if I’m asleep, I can’t keep my mouth open. Maybe they need another nurse to pry open my mouth like opening a durian.

Arghhhhhhhhh……. just tell me it’s not painfull!!!!!!

But then…. what is not bearable compare to labour pain?

*(ISP aka Insurance Sales People)

Scenario 1

ISP: Hello misling, you are one of our selected people bla, bla, bla, credit card user. Bla, bla, bla. We have a insurance fit bla, bla, bla. With only RM3.50 per week, bla,, bla, bla, it cover terrorist attack, accidents, nature disasters, bla bla.

Tulan: Sorry not interested.

ISP: Why? It is a good plan.

Tulan: I already had a insurance plan.

ISP: Well, does your plan cover terrorist attack?

Tulan: I don’t think I’m that sui!

ISP: Ok. Thank you. (*toot)

Scenario 2

ISP: Yadda, yadda, yadda…..

Tulan: I was about to sell you insurance plan also leh.

ISP: errr… why?

Tulan: I am also a insurance agent leh.

ISP: Oh, really ah. What company you are attached to?

ISP: yadda, yadda, yadda…

See, as easy as that. Scenario one just happened few minutes ago and I am tulan cos she just hung up the phone. Come on. You are a sales person. Haven’t you got any sales training before dealing with asshole like us? A real good sales person could actually talk you down on that. Probably she knows that I’m going to go on and on arguing with her and doesn’t want to waste her time on me.