*Red Alert*
Mood level – 80% low
Relatively 19.9% better than yesterday.
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Have you been in this situation before where you are stuck in between decision to choose between two and both are relatively important to you? I have! And I know it’s not easy to decide.
After going thru this situation twice, I kinda conclude a certain criteria in a person’s life. It might not be you, but i know there are plenty of them out there.
What will you do if you are given to choose between career and family? Well, If you have family but no money, you won’t have a happy family. But if you choose career, what will your family think of you? So I’ll still say that money win!
With money you can have another family (probably get a more beau.ti.ful wife or hensemer husband). Without money you are nothing!!!! -_-
I’m going back to my couch now to think again. Maybe counting petals might help. money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… money… family… *sigh…
*urghhhhhhhhhhhhhh* I’m going crazy -_-
Lil' Joy said,
October 5, 2006 @ 2:44 pm
yesterday was 99.9% low??? You did not sound like it though.
Oh well, tomorrow the percentage will go much lower than 80%. I’m sure.
Jan said,
October 5, 2006 @ 3:38 pm
percentage’s going down so it’s a good thing, tomorrow will be a better day!!! You’ll see you’ll see
the Razzler said,
October 5, 2006 @ 3:49 pm
Queen … Why? isit becoz’ 23rd declared holiday also `mou nei ge fun’ … isit?
Cheer up !! if your mood are as bad as you said … then it can only gets better after this !! 🙂 🙂
the Razzler said,
October 5, 2006 @ 3:59 pm
Opps ! Only managed to read your write ups after I had send my comments !! hehe 🙂
Money & Family … most ideal to have both. I may have to come to a similar crossroad soon when it’s the `transfer window’ season .. just like football. 🙂
Guess, when you can still work (hmm …. & need the $$), you may just have to sacrifice a few years apart from your family. Perhaps, it may just work out better in terms of better endearment. Distance makes the heart fonder.
Cheer up !! 🙂 🙂
The Queen says: Man goes for $$$ -_- . Maybe I should get a poll.
Lil' Joy said,
October 5, 2006 @ 4:14 pm
I would like to say put family first but without $$, is it possible to have a happy family in this pragmatic world that we live in? When I say without $$, I refer to those who really cannot afford to provide their family with sufficient level of needs and wants and comfort. Of course many of us are able to do that but its never enough and we want more $$.
I think you know the answer already.
the Razzler said,
October 5, 2006 @ 4:24 pm
Queen … what’s the choice that’s bogging you down? If there’s anything that can bring the Queen’s mood level down to 80% low .. then it must be pretty serious matter, huh? Money (depends on how much) … do buys happiness, yunno?
mumsgather said,
October 5, 2006 @ 4:48 pm
Reading your post, I think you’ve answered yourself adi.
The Queen says: Money win but I want family to win instead. That is why it’s bugging me so much 🙁 .
huisia said,
October 5, 2006 @ 5:15 pm
You thinking to be a SAHM?
daboss said,
October 5, 2006 @ 6:21 pm
both are important but money is more important… i agree with your conclusion… 😉
maybe 10-20 years ago things were different… but nowadays… 🙁
wuching said,
October 5, 2006 @ 8:03 pm
u just need to find a balance between the 2
alkapocino said,
October 5, 2006 @ 8:46 pm
Sigh!!! Love of money is the root of all evil but someone distorted it and say, lack of money is!!! 🙁
jazzmint said,
October 5, 2006 @ 9:16 pm
Without money can die, but with money no family oso can die..really hard decision
Simple American said,
October 6, 2006 @ 12:55 am
You must juggle. If both spouses have to work then find a balance where you or spouse can be where your kids need em. Need money or you cannot survive, thinking about Maslow’s Heirarchy.
Just try for quality. When with family give them your best. When at work give them your best. But try and keep the two seperated. Mixing work and family does not work so good.
Lil said,
October 6, 2006 @ 5:48 am
how often are making decisions easy? often, the most difficult questions are those that we are most concerned with…
Allan(cannot stop coughin,damn!) said,
October 6, 2006 @ 4:48 pm
I think at first aim for money,until enough then retired and then go for family…If not enought money will the family suffer?If not then also can go for family,if is suffer then better continue earning money…And by the way people always like to be perfect,but they can only reach almost perfect,not totally perfect…Looks like i spam alot rubbish in here hahaha pai seh~~~~Happy mooncake festival….
woei said,
October 7, 2006 @ 8:45 pm
hope i can help you with that. I am now stucked in Korea, body is here but mind and soul at Malaysia.
To go back-cannot, to stay here-living corpse…Just pray for equallity. Family is more important than money.
With little money, spend less. Have quality time rather than expensive time 🙂