Me and the significant other
I felt a very big dissapointment in my other half. My other half that almost became a quarter. He choose to polish his boss’s nuts play badminton with his boss rather than watch his daughter’s 1st recital. Probably to him is no big deal, but to me it is. I wouldn’t mind if he doesn’t want to attend the 2nd or 3rd or 4th. But this is the FIRST! FIRST! FIRST! A mother wouldn’t want to miss their children’s first development. Regardless whether it is their first crawl, first fall, first step, first word, etc….. and of course with the anticipation of the other half who they called ‘Daddy’.
The way he’s trying to get away from attending and his excuses of course hurt me so much :(Â 🙁 🙁
After last night incident, I know where he put us in his priority list. I do agree when they say man will change year after. I’m not here to judge any man but you will see in 5 years or 10 years time. But I know, my man did change…. lately.
JC said,
May 31, 2006 @ 11:56 am
Chill girl.
Polishing boss’ nuts is equally as important as putting food on the table.
Nowadays for videocam. Can record then play for him mah…. 🙂
Relax.. relax… eat ais kacang… hehe
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Hisham said,
May 31, 2006 @ 12:49 pm
Lady’s Finger?
ahwoei said,
June 1, 2006 @ 10:27 am
Ah you guys will never understand Venus. For women like us, having a husband to support us physically and morally is more important than having big cars or big houses. Just enough to survive and ‘enjoy-if you want’ but FIRST time is always once is a life time.
You know, saying “I love you” worth zillion times than buying Rm288 flower buquet. Well, at least this is what I think we are…
JC said,
June 1, 2006 @ 11:05 am
But then hor, if you don’t suck up to the boss and resulting in driving Kancil (instead of Naza Ria) with 5-6 people inside is going to be pretty uncomfortable, right?
Or worse, 5-6 people crammed in a rented room because hor, no money wor…
All makan roti lor…
Seriously, think about it. At the end of the day, people can put their longest finger in my face but reality strikes. Man (as in guys) strive to provide the best for their families.
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daboss said,
June 1, 2006 @ 1:30 pm
ahwoei, either your not married or you’re still young and haven’t experienced the difficulties of not having enough money…
anyway, ahjang, to me, it really does seem like a small matter leh… probably that’s because i’m a guy… 🙂
Hijackqueen said,
June 1, 2006 @ 1:46 pm
daBoss, that’s the problem with guys cos they never put family first. What makes me mad is the “beating-around-the-bush” and you must know hubby is a great tai-chi 🙂
Chris C said,
June 1, 2006 @ 3:33 pm
We women will always have our expectations and the men will always have their thinking and “balls” to balance….haha
I know what u’re going thru’…been there many times liao, especially during the early yrs of marriage. Disappointed eh?….which women wouldn’t but as the yrs passed and i realised that he’ll never change back into the guy i knew b4 we got married, for the sake of the family and the marriage, i have to learn to change to adapt to him instead. Learn to look at things thru’ his eyes and try to understand why he’s doing things that often tempt me to aim a bazooka at him. U see, to them, putting their work and success ahead of the family at times, doesn’t mean they love us lesser. He could be doing it, hoping for a better future and life for the family. Like the saying goes, “opportunity only knocks once”, and if he doesn’t grab it and give his all, there might never be another chance. Always bear in mind, he’s doing it for u and the children. If he could, i’m sure he would want to spend time with u and the family as much as he could, but reality is, he have to slog it out there….and for who? I know it’s really hard, but if u love him and the family, this is the step u have to take and learn. This is where we as the wife, have to learn to put the husband’s interest 1st b4 ours, to maintain the harmony of the marriage.Being critical and grumpy will be the last thing your hubby wants from u. If u were to give him all the support and understanding u could, even when your heart aches and boils, u’ll see the rewards in time to come. Believe me cos’ i’ve been there. No point arguing why we have to be the one to give in always, cos’ u’ll end up bitter and more unsatisfied,…only one answer, u do it b’cos of love. Still a long way to go for u so be prepare.
oddfather said,
June 2, 2006 @ 8:30 am
There is always another first, for him. I’m sure he had a very good reason, not excuse for sucking hos boss’ balls. Time will tell. 🙂
Odysseus said,
June 3, 2006 @ 1:29 am
For me, it’s still OK to missing some events. Everything can be prioritised. What’s important is relative. Discuss and seek to understand. Maybe, that badminton game can bring big promotion to send his gal to learn music in top music school in the world… who knows?
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Hijack Queen » Third Recital said,
July 26, 2007 @ 3:39 pm
[…] But, what to do. This is his first time watching his daughter performing. Oh, and this is Baby Princess 2nd time watching her Big sister performing. End of the performance, no one clap but Baby was cheering so loud, she goes “YAYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!”. Everyone just burst into laughter and followed by applauses. That, I would called a good show! […]