Would you do it with your friend?

It has never come across my mind that I would slept with a friend but I know someone out there is doing that.

No way!! Friends can never have sex with each other. In any case, they are called acquaintances. Friends are supposed to respect each other – that’s when you learn to trust and be comfortable with each other.

Don’t classified yourself as being conservative just cos you swear in your heart that you won’t do it – it’s about your moral values. You only have sex with people that you love. Having sex with friends or out of curiosity only serves to disrespect, even if it’s about being fun.

I can never imagine how friends can still continue to be friends even after having sex. Yucks! So do they go like,”last night very shiok hor. Let’s have a cup of coffee and discuss about it and then chat.”

EERKkss.

Just imagine, after the sleep over, you will became uncomfortable whenever he’s around and you just wished that he don’t brings it up and pretended things never happened and carrying on with the friendship as per normal. Or… you could avoid eye contact with him forever.

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  1. JC said,

    April 25, 2006 @ 4:01 pm

    Great post…
    Come, group hug.. :D

    Jessie says:  That is virtual hug.  Not counted!!!

  2. shiruikage said,

    April 25, 2006 @ 9:31 pm

    that kind of friends is called friends with benifits mah.

    Jessie says:  So I’ll take your answer as ‘YES’?

  3. david martinez said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 9:57 am

    hey woman,
    why hug cannot meh? whats wrong with hug?
    why are u soooo uptight with public displays of affection?

    and besides when you fuck ur friend its then called “fuck buddies”.
    i admit i sounds like it will get complicated but some ppl are doing it left, right and center! so let them if they want to.

    i suppose u are like me then and cannot go see the new movie “broke back mountain” ? i cannot bear to watch it…..eeewwwww!

    cheers
    david
    usa/singapore

  4. athena said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 11:13 am

    doing with A friend is ok…as long as you’ve signed the papers stating your friend is eternally bound to you and not doing wif ‘another friend’

    hehe…

    no need to to do the Jessie says: ….
    athena : No!!

  5. Chris C said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 1:18 pm

    Sex for fun is definitely a no-no……but physical affection, depends how well and how close I am with that person. My buddies, even guys, do give me a hug everynow and then, but we know it’s purely platonic. As for my western friends, normal lah for them to greet me with a hug and a peck on the cheek. Once a british friend of mine, a sweet middle age lady, during our tearfull goodbye after her hols here, gave me a kiss right on the lips. My first from someone else besides my hubby and gals, haha…….felt a bit funny, but I know it’s normal for them.

  6. JC said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 4:44 pm

    Come… come.. group kiss… **muah**

  7. Lil said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 7:56 pm

    what’s wrong with a hug and a peck on the cheek? i do that all the time…
    but then again, i do live in an angmoh country and adopting their culture i guess…

    to be sex buddy, well, even i am not adopting that… yet.. :-p

    Jessie says:  Sure you do that all the time la.  You live there for donkey years and eating their rice more than you eat malaysian rice wat.  What do you expect me when getting a hug in public for the first time.  Not used to it wat.  I think my foot is not touching the ground that day. lol.

  8. JC said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 9:54 pm

    Lil, love the way you said “yet”… LOL

    Generally, Asian people living in Asian countries still very shy… and conservative. :)

  9. daboss said,

    April 26, 2006 @ 10:34 pm

    erm… friends cannot have sex ah? hmm…

    hmm… err…

  10. Lil said,

    April 27, 2006 @ 6:41 pm

    well, jc, can’t rule out the possibility mah… :p

    ahjang, you should see me the first time i got an sms from this guy i just met at a party the day before and he finished it with “kisses” at the end… i was like, omg!… but turns out, most french and italian use that as substitute for greeting/goodbye kisses…

    Jessie says: I put virtual “muaks” all the time now.:)

  11. Allan !!! said,

    April 28, 2006 @ 2:13 am

    Hug can:But also dun simply go “luan luan” hug people…

    Sex no:definetly no…

  12. Selena said,

    April 28, 2006 @ 3:36 am

    depends on the person giving / receiving the kisses????
    Jessie ask: I’m more interested to know the s*x thing la.

  13. sila said,

    April 28, 2006 @ 4:16 am

    i oso very much bought into the “hug” routine, although pecks on the cheek tend to be a more european habit than american (if i meet up with brits or other europeans then i get “pecked”). but i tell you hor, i have a good malaysian (male) friend who went to college 45 minutes away from mine, and we got together to watch movies, eat malaysian food and hang out quite often. hugging was our usual way of greeting or farewell. now when i see him (he’s back home now) we hug, then we look around a bit guiltily to see if friends/family think anything funny. ;) uptight malaysians are we!

    but the peck on the cheek for me is a bit odd. my sis-in-law is into that (more of the malay culture from the east coast, i think) and the first time she did it to me i was like whoaaaaaa calm down there, puppy… but i’m used to it lah. now i get confused because sometimes it’s one on each cheek and sometimes it’s 3 kisses…muah muah muah…

    as to sleeping with a friend – i think it would really spoil the friendship.

  14. Allan said,

    April 28, 2006 @ 2:04 pm

    Hahaha i forgot to mention this in the previous post…Malaysian people don’t hug because they are following the rules,in malaysia if you hug any people in the public you will kena “saman” (Don’t ask why)write in newspaper.No hug,kiss or other not nice to look stuff..Hold hands can…Alot of people complain about this,Got 1 couple in KL kena saman because huggin,then they don’t feel guilty then kena brought to the court for admitin they wrong…

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