Comments on: To Stay Single or Married? http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/ Thu, 04 Dec 2008 22:07:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Julia http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3144 Julia Wed, 14 Feb 2007 05:50:14 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3144 Getting married is not necessary lah. And if never have children, sure your mother in law and aunties all make noise and want you to have children so that one bo bian, die die also must have kids right, at least ONE. (i know you said dun put children in but have to put lah). License to screw, that one 18 years old obtained liao, so not so much getting married and obtaining your license. Plus you have to share your hard earned money everywhere, a bit sadded right? You remain single, you have lotsa freedom, can go holiday can do anything, with the money you earned. I see my parents, they work so long also in the end the money also will go to us, we buy this we buy that also they work de. Even if dont have us, sure my mom will use my dad's money. So so so, dont get married! Later lah, enjoy life first. Getting married is not necessary lah. And if never have children, sure your mother in law and aunties all make noise and want you to have children so that one bo bian, die die also must have kids right, at least ONE. (i know you said dun put children in but have to put lah). License to screw, that one 18 years old obtained liao, so not so much getting married and obtaining your license. Plus you have to share your hard earned money everywhere, a bit sadded right? You remain single, you have lotsa freedom, can go holiday can do anything, with the money you earned. I see my parents, they work so long also in the end the money also will go to us, we buy this we buy that also they work de. Even if dont have us, sure my mom will use my dad’s money. So so so, dont get married! Later lah, enjoy life first.

]]> By: Milly http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3005 Milly Mon, 12 Feb 2007 05:08:50 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3005 ****The plus point of getting married is “LICENSE TO SCREW”**** WHAT??! You need to get Married to get a license to be able to have sex? HAHAHAHA. Oh Man! that's about the dumbest thing I've heard in ages. My Parents weren't married when they decided to have me. OOPS! Bad Parents! they didn't have a license! AND MY DAD'S JAPANESE! The main point of marriage isn't just a license to screw, dear. I have no idea what gave you that idea, but If I wanna have sex I don't need no friken marriage. No one does. It's done by choice, and not by a license. ****The plus point of getting married is “LICENSE TO SCREW”****

WHAT??! You need to get Married to get a license to be able to have sex? HAHAHAHA. Oh Man! that’s about the dumbest thing I’ve heard in ages.

My Parents weren’t married when they decided to have me. OOPS! Bad Parents! they didn’t have a license! AND MY DAD’S JAPANESE!

The main point of marriage isn’t just a license to screw, dear. I have no idea what gave you that idea, but If I wanna have sex I don’t need no friken marriage. No one does. It’s done by choice, and not by a license.

]]> By: Dakota http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3002 Dakota Mon, 12 Feb 2007 04:46:19 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3002 Does god really love us if he doesnt let us be our selves? god is a saviour. he's not meant to be a controling person, and im sorry to say this, but how can god be a good example.. baby jesus wasnt even created from sex, he was an egg or whatever you would like to call it, how would the bible, you or any other faculty know? you need to open your mind, that all i gon say, last comment liao. done. Does god really love us if he doesnt let us be our selves? god is a saviour. he’s not meant to be a controling person, and im sorry to say this, but how can god be a good example.. baby jesus wasnt even created from sex, he was an egg or whatever you would like to call it, how would the bible, you or any other faculty know? you need to open your mind, that all i gon say, last comment liao. done.

]]> By: Dakota http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3001 Dakota Mon, 12 Feb 2007 04:44:38 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3001 Also, who said god wanted male and female, male and male, or female and female to be a couple? didn't god just want us to be happy in our lives regardless of what we did or do? hmmm.. you need to think about that one la, Also, who said god wanted male and female, male and male, or female and female to be a couple? didn’t god just want us to be happy in our lives regardless of what we did or do? hmmm.. you need to think about that one la,

]]> By: Dakota http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3000 Dakota Mon, 12 Feb 2007 04:39:39 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-3000 Well, I guess your opinion is ok.. I read what you said, but I think it is a bit old fashioned don't you think? And also descriminating against gay people, or lesbian people... I am no activist, but just because marriage worked for you and you think it should for other people doesn't mean you can say for such a reason, how can marriage be made by god if people on earth don't even practice it in a good way? You wrote as if it is bad to be single? Did you ever consider some people want other thing in their life and not just become married, have one guy, one girl, or just run around busy everyday after kids and other household essentials? My parents were married for 26 years, and look at them, they divorce after such a long time, 26 yrs of hell for my parents, all because they tied the knot.. I think getting married means you can't be your self, someone else is always in the background, can't do what you want, cant be around who you want, can travel all the time, can't shop for stuff you want, cant go out with people that the person doesnt like, cant shop for this and that because t his person said no, got to support this person sometimes to the point of hell and being broke, gota get a mortage, go to work, have cars, have a house, wow.. how fun? slavery more like it! I love god, I am open to all gods, I am buddhist, however I believe some things god says, but who's to say that there is only one way, and that only one adam and eve and all the rest? your post was just what you think? but just because your christian gives you a license to descriminate(regardless of your opinion) sorry, but this post was as much or an eye opener for me, as much as it was also closed minded. You shoul recognize that everyone got a life, got an opinion, got a preference, and to be frank with you, isn't prepared to just marry the next person that gets their fancy or is good with them, marriage is sacred and these days its just a spending binge. And who is to say you need someone else to help you live your life, be by your side, this is quite a weak and very pathetic value to life, we're humans.. and in some situations, not everyone is meant, or for that matter wants to be married. This is your blog,. your opnions which I passionately respect, but for me, this is one of the most closed minded entries you have written. actually turned me off god, christianity, marriage and even your website, I'm really depressed now, and I'm not just dramatizing. Thanks. Dakota ox. you have a nice day. bye., Well, I guess your opinion is ok.. I read what you said, but I think it is a bit old fashioned don’t you think? And also descriminating against gay people, or lesbian people… I am no activist, but just because marriage worked for you and you think it should for other people doesn’t mean you can say for such a reason, how can marriage be made by god if people on earth don’t even practice it in a good way? You wrote as if it is bad to be single? Did you ever consider some people want other thing in their life and not just become married, have one guy, one girl, or just run around busy everyday after kids and other household essentials? My parents were married for 26 years, and look at them, they divorce after such a long time, 26 yrs of hell for my parents, all because they tied the knot.. I think getting married means you can’t be your self, someone else is always in the background, can’t do what you want, cant be around who you want, can travel all the time, can’t shop for stuff you want, cant go out with people that the person doesnt like, cant shop for this and that because t his person said no, got to support this person sometimes to the point of hell and being broke, gota get a mortage, go to work, have cars, have a house, wow.. how fun? slavery more like it!
I love god, I am open to all gods, I am buddhist, however I believe some things god says, but who’s to say that there is only one way, and that only one adam and eve and all the rest? your post was just what you think? but just because your christian gives you a license to descriminate(regardless of your opinion) sorry, but this post was as much or an eye opener for me, as much as it was also closed minded.
You shoul recognize that everyone got a life, got an opinion, got a preference, and to be frank with you, isn’t prepared to just marry the next person that gets their fancy or is good with them, marriage is sacred and these days its just a spending binge.

And who is to say you need someone else to help you live your life, be by your side, this is quite a weak and very pathetic value to life, we’re humans.. and in some situations, not everyone is meant, or for that matter wants to be married.
This is your blog,. your opnions which I passionately respect, but for me, this is one of the most closed minded entries you have written. actually turned me off god, christianity, marriage and even your website, I’m really depressed now, and I’m not just dramatizing. Thanks.
Dakota ox. you have a nice day. bye.,

]]> By: The Snark http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2997 The Snark Mon, 12 Feb 2007 01:10:35 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2997 Try this one www.nomarriage.com Having done both, I know which I would rather choose. Being married can be fun. Being married to the wrong person isn't. Try this one http://www.nomarriage.com

Having done both, I know which I would rather choose.

Being married can be fun. Being married to the wrong person isn’t.

]]> By: yenjai.net http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2996 yenjai.net Mon, 12 Feb 2007 00:55:49 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2996 I would agree that both sides have their plus point. In life, there is no easy way to say : Single or Married Married to a wrong partner, and you are doomed. Single, but clueless to how to manage your life, you are fated to loneliness. Bernard, yeah. Staying married is an art takes a lifetime to learn. Still fine tuning it after 8 years. I would agree that both sides have their plus point.
In life, there is no easy way to say : Single or Married
Married to a wrong partner, and you are doomed.
Single, but clueless to how to manage your life, you are fated to loneliness.

Bernard, yeah. Staying married is an art takes a lifetime to learn.
Still fine tuning it after 8 years.

]]> By: Bengbeng http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2987 Bengbeng Sun, 11 Feb 2007 12:23:07 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2987 My answer to your topic : we are all so dreadfully mortal and there will come a time when we are not able to physically take care of ourselves. Having a child or children gives us hope of immortality when we leave. Btw i love yr food pics of wuching's blog. http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/02/11/sibu-benevolent-society-nursing-home/ My answer to your topic : we are all so dreadfully mortal and there will come a time when we are not able to physically take care of ourselves. Having a child or children gives us hope of immortality when we leave. Btw i love yr food pics of wuching’s blog. http://www.mylongkang.com/2007/02/11/sibu-benevolent-society-nursing-home/

]]> By: william wilstroth http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2963 william wilstroth Fri, 09 Feb 2007 12:34:40 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2963 Whoa.... getting married is fun... i am getting tied legally this coming 10 of March, 2007... wish me luck... Whoa…. getting married is fun… i am getting tied legally this coming 10 of March, 2007… wish me luck…

]]> By: Allan http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2957 Allan Fri, 09 Feb 2007 06:15:17 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2007/02/08/to-stay-single-or-married/#comment-2957 Havent enjoy fun yet,so being single is still acceptable + money is important,no earn more money how to get married? And currently also no girls come approach me (hehe!)...But to be honest very jealous seeing other couple that walk in the street at valentine day...haiz what to do... Havent enjoy fun yet,so being single is still acceptable + money is important,no earn more money how to get married? And currently also no girls come approach me (hehe!)…But to be honest very jealous seeing other couple that walk in the street at valentine day…haiz what to do…

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