Comments on: Me and the significant other http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/ Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:18:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Hijack Queen » Third Recital http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-17491 Hijack Queen » Third Recital Thu, 26 Jul 2007 07:39:08 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-17491 [...] But, what to do. This is his first time watching his daughter performing. Oh, and this is Baby Princess 2nd time watching her Big sister performing. End of the performance, no one clap but Baby was cheering so loud, she goes “YAYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!”. Everyone just burst into laughter and followed by applauses. That, I would called a good show! [...] […] But, what to do. This is his first time watching his daughter performing. Oh, and this is Baby Princess 2nd time watching her Big sister performing. End of the performance, no one clap but Baby was cheering so loud, she goes “YAYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!”. Everyone just burst into laughter and followed by applauses. That, I would called a good show! […]

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]]> By: Odysseus http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-248 Odysseus Fri, 02 Jun 2006 17:29:32 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-248 For me, it's still OK to missing some events. Everything can be prioritised. What's important is relative. Discuss and seek to understand. Maybe, that badminton game can bring big promotion to send his gal to learn music in top music school in the world... who knows? For me, it’s still OK to missing some events. Everything can be prioritised. What’s important is relative. Discuss and seek to understand. Maybe, that badminton game can bring big promotion to send his gal to learn music in top music school in the world… who knows?

]]> By: oddfather http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-241 oddfather Fri, 02 Jun 2006 00:30:30 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-241 There is always another first, for him. I'm sure he had a very good reason, not excuse for sucking hos boss' balls. Time will tell. :) There is always another first, for him. I’m sure he had a very good reason, not excuse for sucking hos boss’ balls. Time will tell. :)

]]> By: Chris C http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-237 Chris C Thu, 01 Jun 2006 07:33:03 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-237 We women will always have our expectations and the men will always have their thinking and "balls" to balance....haha I know what u're going thru'...been there many times liao, especially during the early yrs of marriage. Disappointed eh?....which women wouldn't but as the yrs passed and i realised that he'll never change back into the guy i knew b4 we got married, for the sake of the family and the marriage, i have to learn to change to adapt to him instead. Learn to look at things thru' his eyes and try to understand why he's doing things that often tempt me to aim a bazooka at him. U see, to them, putting their work and success ahead of the family at times, doesn't mean they love us lesser. He could be doing it, hoping for a better future and life for the family. Like the saying goes, "opportunity only knocks once", and if he doesn't grab it and give his all, there might never be another chance. Always bear in mind, he's doing it for u and the children. If he could, i'm sure he would want to spend time with u and the family as much as he could, but reality is, he have to slog it out there....and for who? I know it's really hard, but if u love him and the family, this is the step u have to take and learn. This is where we as the wife, have to learn to put the husband's interest 1st b4 ours, to maintain the harmony of the marriage.Being critical and grumpy will be the last thing your hubby wants from u. If u were to give him all the support and understanding u could, even when your heart aches and boils, u'll see the rewards in time to come. Believe me cos' i've been there. No point arguing why we have to be the one to give in always, cos' u'll end up bitter and more unsatisfied,...only one answer, u do it b'cos of love. Still a long way to go for u so be prepare. We women will always have our expectations and the men will always have their thinking and “balls” to balance….haha
I know what u’re going thru’…been there many times liao, especially during the early yrs of marriage. Disappointed eh?….which women wouldn’t but as the yrs passed and i realised that he’ll never change back into the guy i knew b4 we got married, for the sake of the family and the marriage, i have to learn to change to adapt to him instead. Learn to look at things thru’ his eyes and try to understand why he’s doing things that often tempt me to aim a bazooka at him. U see, to them, putting their work and success ahead of the family at times, doesn’t mean they love us lesser. He could be doing it, hoping for a better future and life for the family. Like the saying goes, “opportunity only knocks once”, and if he doesn’t grab it and give his all, there might never be another chance. Always bear in mind, he’s doing it for u and the children. If he could, i’m sure he would want to spend time with u and the family as much as he could, but reality is, he have to slog it out there….and for who? I know it’s really hard, but if u love him and the family, this is the step u have to take and learn. This is where we as the wife, have to learn to put the husband’s interest 1st b4 ours, to maintain the harmony of the marriage.Being critical and grumpy will be the last thing your hubby wants from u. If u were to give him all the support and understanding u could, even when your heart aches and boils, u’ll see the rewards in time to come. Believe me cos’ i’ve been there. No point arguing why we have to be the one to give in always, cos’ u’ll end up bitter and more unsatisfied,…only one answer, u do it b’cos of love. Still a long way to go for u so be prepare.

]]> By: Hijackqueen http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-235 Hijackqueen Thu, 01 Jun 2006 05:46:37 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-235 daBoss, that's the problem with guys cos they never put family first. What makes me mad is the "beating-around-the-bush" and you must know hubby is a great tai-chi :) daBoss, that’s the problem with guys cos they never put family first. What makes me mad is the “beating-around-the-bush” and you must know hubby is a great tai-chi :)

]]> By: daboss http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-234 daboss Thu, 01 Jun 2006 05:30:27 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-234 ahwoei, either your not married or you're still young and haven't experienced the difficulties of not having enough money... anyway, ahjang, to me, it really does seem like a small matter leh... probably that's because i'm a guy... :) ahwoei, either your not married or you’re still young and haven’t experienced the difficulties of not having enough money…

anyway, ahjang, to me, it really does seem like a small matter leh… probably that’s because i’m a guy… :)

]]> By: JC http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-233 JC Thu, 01 Jun 2006 03:05:47 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-233 But then hor, if you don't suck up to the boss and resulting in driving Kancil (instead of Naza Ria) with 5-6 people inside is going to be pretty uncomfortable, right? Or worse, 5-6 people crammed in a rented room because hor, no money wor... All makan roti lor... Seriously, think about it. At the end of the day, people can put their longest finger in my face but reality strikes. Man (as in guys) strive to provide the best for their families. Sony Digital Camera versus a disposable paper camera: your choice. But then hor, if you don’t suck up to the boss and resulting in driving Kancil (instead of Naza Ria) with 5-6 people inside is going to be pretty uncomfortable, right?

Or worse, 5-6 people crammed in a rented room because hor, no money wor…
All makan roti lor…

Seriously, think about it. At the end of the day, people can put their longest finger in my face but reality strikes. Man (as in guys) strive to provide the best for their families.

Sony Digital Camera versus a disposable paper camera: your choice.

]]> By: ahwoei http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-232 ahwoei Thu, 01 Jun 2006 02:27:40 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-232 Ah you guys will never understand Venus. For women like us, having a husband to support us physically and morally is more important than having big cars or big houses. Just enough to survive and 'enjoy-if you want' but FIRST time is always once is a life time. You know, saying "I love you" worth zillion times than buying Rm288 flower buquet. Well, at least this is what I think we are... Ah you guys will never understand Venus. For women like us, having a husband to support us physically and morally is more important than having big cars or big houses. Just enough to survive and ‘enjoy-if you want’ but FIRST time is always once is a life time.

You know, saying “I love you” worth zillion times than buying Rm288 flower buquet. Well, at least this is what I think we are…

]]> By: Hisham http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-227 Hisham Wed, 31 May 2006 04:49:57 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/2006/05/31/you-and-the-significant-other/#comment-227 <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okra" rel="nofollow">Lady's Finger?</a> Lady’s Finger?

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