Comments on: Would you do it with your friend? http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/ Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:16:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Allan http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Allan Fri, 28 Apr 2006 06:04:28 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-69 Hahaha i forgot to mention this in the previous post...Malaysian people don't hug because they are following the rules,in malaysia if you hug any people in the public you will kena "saman" (Don't ask why)write in newspaper.No hug,kiss or other not nice to look stuff..Hold hands can...Alot of people complain about this,Got 1 couple in KL kena saman because huggin,then they don't feel guilty then kena brought to the court for admitin they wrong... Hahaha i forgot to mention this in the previous post…Malaysian people don’t hug because they are following the rules,in malaysia if you hug any people in the public you will kena “saman” (Don’t ask why)write in newspaper.No hug,kiss or other not nice to look stuff..Hold hands can…Alot of people complain about this,Got 1 couple in KL kena saman because huggin,then they don’t feel guilty then kena brought to the court for admitin they wrong…

]]> By: sila http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-65 sila Thu, 27 Apr 2006 20:16:18 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-65 i oso very much bought into the "hug" routine, although pecks on the cheek tend to be a more european habit than american (if i meet up with brits or other europeans then i get "pecked"). but i tell you hor, i have a good malaysian (male) friend who went to college 45 minutes away from mine, and we got together to watch movies, eat malaysian food and hang out quite often. hugging was our usual way of greeting or farewell. now when i see him (he's back home now) we hug, then we look around a bit guiltily to see if friends/family think anything funny. ;) uptight malaysians are we! but the peck on the cheek for me is a bit odd. my sis-in-law is into that (more of the malay culture from the east coast, i think) and the first time she did it to me i was like whoaaaaaa calm down there, puppy... but i'm used to it lah. now i get confused because sometimes it's one on each cheek and sometimes it's 3 kisses...muah muah muah... as to sleeping with a friend - i think it would really spoil the friendship. i oso very much bought into the “hug” routine, although pecks on the cheek tend to be a more european habit than american (if i meet up with brits or other europeans then i get “pecked”). but i tell you hor, i have a good malaysian (male) friend who went to college 45 minutes away from mine, and we got together to watch movies, eat malaysian food and hang out quite often. hugging was our usual way of greeting or farewell. now when i see him (he’s back home now) we hug, then we look around a bit guiltily to see if friends/family think anything funny. ;) uptight malaysians are we!

but the peck on the cheek for me is a bit odd. my sis-in-law is into that (more of the malay culture from the east coast, i think) and the first time she did it to me i was like whoaaaaaa calm down there, puppy… but i’m used to it lah. now i get confused because sometimes it’s one on each cheek and sometimes it’s 3 kisses…muah muah muah…

as to sleeping with a friend - i think it would really spoil the friendship.

]]> By: Selena http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Selena Thu, 27 Apr 2006 19:36:39 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-63 depends on the person giving / receiving the kisses???? <strong>Jessie ask: I'm more interested to know the s*x thing la. </strong> depends on the person giving / receiving the kisses????
Jessie ask: I’m more interested to know the s*x thing la.

]]> By: Allan !!! http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-62 Allan !!! Thu, 27 Apr 2006 18:13:29 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-62 Hug can:But also dun simply go "luan luan" hug people... Sex no:definetly no... Hug can:But also dun simply go “luan luan” hug people…

Sex no:definetly no…

]]> By: Lil http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Lil Thu, 27 Apr 2006 10:41:55 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-60 well, jc, can't rule out the possibility mah... :p ahjang, you should see me the first time i got an sms from this guy i just met at a party the day before and he finished it with "kisses" at the end... i was like, omg!... but turns out, most french and italian use that as substitute for greeting/goodbye kisses... <strong>Jessie says: I put virtual "muaks" all the time now.:)</strong> well, jc, can’t rule out the possibility mah… :p

ahjang, you should see me the first time i got an sms from this guy i just met at a party the day before and he finished it with “kisses” at the end… i was like, omg!… but turns out, most french and italian use that as substitute for greeting/goodbye kisses…

Jessie says: I put virtual “muaks” all the time now.:)

]]> By: daboss http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-57 daboss Wed, 26 Apr 2006 14:34:20 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-57 erm... friends cannot have sex ah? hmm... hmm... err... erm… friends cannot have sex ah? hmm…

hmm… err…

]]> By: JC http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-56 JC Wed, 26 Apr 2006 13:54:03 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-56 Lil, love the way you said "yet"... LOL Generally, Asian people living in Asian countries still very shy... and conservative. :) Lil, love the way you said “yet”… LOL

Generally, Asian people living in Asian countries still very shy… and conservative. :)

]]> By: Lil http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-55 Lil Wed, 26 Apr 2006 11:56:38 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-55 what's wrong with a hug and a peck on the cheek? i do that all the time... but then again, i do live in an angmoh country and adopting their culture i guess... to be sex buddy, well, even i am not adopting that... yet.. :-p <strong>Jessie says:  Sure you do that all the time la.  You live there for donkey years and eating their rice more than you eat malaysian rice wat.  What do you expect me when getting a hug in public for the first time.  Not used to it wat.  I think my foot is not touching the ground that day. lol.</strong> what’s wrong with a hug and a peck on the cheek? i do that all the time…
but then again, i do live in an angmoh country and adopting their culture i guess…

to be sex buddy, well, even i am not adopting that… yet.. :-p

Jessie says:  Sure you do that all the time la.  You live there for donkey years and eating their rice more than you eat malaysian rice wat.  What do you expect me when getting a hug in public for the first time.  Not used to it wat.  I think my foot is not touching the ground that day. lol.

]]> By: JC http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-54 JC Wed, 26 Apr 2006 08:44:08 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-54 Come... come.. group kiss... **muah** Come… come.. group kiss… **muah**

]]> By: Chris C http://www.jessieling.com/2006/04/25/would-you-do-it-with-your-friend/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Chris C Wed, 26 Apr 2006 05:18:07 +0000 http://www.jessieling.com/?p=10#comment-53 Sex for fun is definitely a no-no......but physical affection, depends how well and how close I am with that person. My buddies, even guys, do give me a hug everynow and then, but we know it's purely platonic. As for my western friends, normal lah for them to greet me with a hug and a peck on the cheek. Once a british friend of mine, a sweet middle age lady, during our tearfull goodbye after her hols here, gave me a kiss right on the lips. My first from someone else besides my hubby and gals, haha.......felt a bit funny, but I know it's normal for them. Sex for fun is definitely a no-no……but physical affection, depends how well and how close I am with that person. My buddies, even guys, do give me a hug everynow and then, but we know it’s purely platonic. As for my western friends, normal lah for them to greet me with a hug and a peck on the cheek. Once a british friend of mine, a sweet middle age lady, during our tearfull goodbye after her hols here, gave me a kiss right on the lips. My first from someone else besides my hubby and gals, haha…….felt a bit funny, but I know it’s normal for them.

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